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Strength-based Approach for Well-being

I believe in the power of focusing on strengths rather than weaknesses. Just as a farmer waters his crops to help them grow, we can nurture and develop our strengths to help us flourish in life. Research has shown that adopting a strength-based approach can lead to increased self-esteem, improved relationships, and greater overall well-being (Linley, 2008).

One example of strength-based thinking is the concept of "grit," which refers to an individual's ability to persevere through challenges and setbacks. Angela Duckworth, a psychologist and researcher, found that grit was a better predictor of success than IQ or talent (Duckworth, Peterson, Matthews, & Kelly, 2007). By focusing on our grit and determination, we can push through obstacles and achieve our goals.

I encourage you to identify your own strengths and use them to work towards your goals. For instance, if you are an excellent communicator, you can use this strength to build stronger relationships with those around you. By shifting our focus to what we do well, we can build a sense of confidence and resilience that will serve us well in all areas of life.

Remember, "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7). Let's embrace the power within us and use our strengths to navigate life's challenges with grace and perseverance. Contact me today to start exploring your strengths and navigating life's challenges with grace and perseverance.

Reference List: Duckworth, A. L., Peterson, C., Matthews, M. D., & Kelly, D. R. (2007). Grit: Perseverance and passion for long-term goals. Journal of personality and social psychology, 92(6), 1087–1101. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.92.6.1087

Linley, P. A. (2008). Average to A+: Realising strengths in yourself and others. Coventry, UK: CAPP Press

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