Valentine's day; the most romantic holiday in white supremacy culture reveals the intricate workings of the sin of being white. Here the white male gives gifts of chocolate candy with nuts to his sweetheart. If his sweetheart ingests a "chocolate with nuts," the white male can fantasize that he is genetically equal to the black man. One certainly must question why, in a culture produced by a people that refers to itself as the "white race" and that historically has denounced people with natural chocolate complexions, a dark brown food, namely chocolate, causes such orgasm-like Ecstacy and is associated with eroticism when orally ingested. These customary and traditional little packets of chocolate candy (often with nuts), placed inside of the heart or vaginal orifice-shaped box, are like little sperm packages of Black genetic material being placed in the vaginal orifice. When presented by the white male to the white female, in the context of the skin colour deficient culture, one must conclude that this behaviour in the white supremacy system reflects a deep desire to counteract and compensate for the perceived genetic deficiency of white skin. Black psychologists have the responsibility of exposing and decoding all of that power system's major symbolism.
What can possibly be happening in the minds of men sitting in female dominated space, box of tissue at their side, with a woman saying “tell me how you feel” about this or that? Even worse, asking such probing questions with the implication that he is an empty emotional vessel in need of her redemption. Lea Winerman, a staff writer for the American Psychological Association asks us to “imagine the Marlboro man in therapy.” Imagine instead a therapy office in the boiler room of a ship, in a workshop, a park, a building site, mechanics shed or a sports locker room, with seating arrangements that allowed men to sit at 45 degree angles or side by side — engaged in some kind of task if they wished. Imagine too if we were to engage in some kind of typical male play or industry – not just Jungian sandplay or water-color art therapies as suits the more effeminate sensibilities of women, but hands on therapy – while driving a truck, fixing the engine of a ...
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